On Wed, Sep 26, 2012 at 7:39 AM, Heiko Baums <lists at baums-on-web.de> wrote: > Heiko > Most of the time is not what you say but rather how you say it - your tone. The Frenchs have a saying for that: "The tone makes to the song" or in its original: "C'est le ton qui fait la chanson".